Wandering the Crossroads
A record of my attempts to synthesize the very, very mixed aspects of my personality and background into something resembling a coherent spiritual identity. I'm building this sucker from the ground up. And I'm really trying to Do The Research. Featuring food, fun, and fiber crafts.
Monday, July 9, 2012
Day Nine: Deity and Gender
Okay. OKAY. It is a little bit ridiculous that I have let this blog project languish so much and it is maybe a LOT ridiculous that the post that’s been tripping me up is the one about gender. GOSH.
The plus side of writing and hating it and re-writing and hating that too and letting it sit for months while I observe and engage in tumblr-based outrage about the kyriarchy is that I think I’ve finally got some of my thoughts about gender figured out, and I can therefore articulate how those thoughts intersect with my thoughts about Deity.
So:
I have had a lot of problems with goddesses in the past, or, rather, the idea of THE Goddess. To be honest that was probably the chief theological reason I drifted from Wiccish to Something Else, I just could not get behind the oft-touted great Divine Feminine. (The chief actual reason was that I grew out of being an arrogant smartass with a persecution complex)
Here’s the thing. I LOVE Femme. There are days when nothing will make me feel comfortable except my pink skirt with flower print and lace on the edges, when I want to channel Joan from Mad Men, when I need to wear red lipstick and have my hair fall in waves over one side of my face like a film noir starlet. (also there are days when I feel nothing like that at all and I feel deeply uncomfortable in my body but that is a tangent I’m not gonna go down today.)
But it’s only recently that I came to terms with those feelings, and I never found, in my spiritual wanderings, that the Divine Feminine resonated with those feelings at all. Or maybe that just never resonated with me. And part of the problem is I think when people talk about the Divine Feminine or the Great Goddess they are talking about a female deity whose domain lies in traditionally-constructed ideas of What Being Female Entails. Which is most of the time reproduction. And I just don’t connect with that at all.
All this time I’ve been sort of arguing with myself in increasingly anxious mental circles about whether it’s “wrong” somehow to be a (cis)woman and not feel any connection to a Goddess of Womanhood, whether I should feel guilty for connecting to two deities who are male, whether I should make room for a Divine Mother figure in there even though I never got much of a response, whether this makes me less of a woman, etc.
I could go on for a bit.
Long story short, I think I need to re-frame my views of goddesses, which have been up to this point really quite narrow. Female deities aren’t necessarily ABOUT Being Female. There are a bunch of them, and they are about a bunch of different things. And some of those things are, I think, things that I am also about, and I’m reasonably certain that in the future I might be able to build a spiritual relationship with one (or more) of them.
But right now I probably need to focus with the two dieties who have pesternudged their way into my life, as opposed to tacking on more Others like I’m some sort of deity pokemon collector.
They have domains, things that they’re about, and they happen to be male in...presentation. I say that with a sort of dubious trailing off ellipsis because B is not anthopomorphic to me most of the time anyway, and I get the sense that Liminal God does not give a shit about gender and finds all my anxious hand-wringing just hilarious.
And this brings up something that has always, ALWAYS bugged me about gender inequity in, say, the arts: the old “if a man paints a flower it’s a flower, if a woman paints a flower it’s a vagina” thing. The way society is structured, men can be about Stuff and women can be about Being Women. It is so, so easy to slip into analysis where a female creator’s work just automatically represents The State Of All Women, and LO AND BEHOLD I have been unwittingly been applying that flawed framework to my view of the gods.
That is some bullshit, right there. And it is going to stop.
waking myself up again
So lately I've been feeling spiritually dead inside, which is not a good feeling to have, and it tends to contribute to a general feeling of mild depression. which I'm already prone to. So.
These periods of disconnect are surprisingly common among those of a Pagan persuasion, so much so that a term has been coined: Fallow Times. On some level just knowing that I'm not alone in going through this helps the climb out of the hole become a little easier.
This was a time of letting the stagnant, devouring pattern of everyday life just sap my interest in things. I know it wasn't a complete disconnect from the gods because I kept getting little nudges in really indirect ways, even as I was wailing and gnashing teeth about not getting any responses to the rote prayers and halfhearted offerings. I heard about mindfulness meditation for the first time ever, and got interested to the point of buying a really nice book that I'm not finished with yet, and it reminded me of the joyful way I used to look at the world.
Everywhere I went on the internet I seemed to keep running into articles and quotes about self-care and personal sovereignty, and how these things are often just at odds with the western ideal of productivity. This type of productivity eats up my energy and good feelings like nothing else. :c
I also haven't been cooking much, lately, and the things I have been making are not inventive, engaging things but basic quick things. One of the funny things about being unemployed was that (thankfully) I had enough resources to cook, and I really deeply enjoyed doing that, as a way of managing my environment and taking care of myself and those around me. It was a job, and I enjoyed it. But now that I'm employed cooking has become just another damn thing I have to do if I want to eat, and I'm already tired from standing on my feet all day or evening. It does not contribute to fun and engaging cookery. I think what I'm going to have to do is just plan my weeks out more thoroughly, and save big cooking projects for my days off. That's what it's going to have to be.
As for crafts stuff: I've had lingering, horrible guilt over the fact that the ram I was knitting for LG's shrine still did not have horns, and that's definitely contributed to a slowing-down of knitting fun. Well. That and the fact that we've had INSANE DEADLY HEAT for like three weeks running now and I haven't really wanted to touch yarn and have anything big and wooly on my lap. (Oddly enough I HAVE gotten the spinning bug during this time, but that involves less actual smothering contact with heat-trapping fiber)
Well that silliness STOPPED TONIGHT. News flash everyone: Reese the Ram has horns, dammit. And they look super cute as he is sitting on my nightstand, all big fat sheep belly and tiny cartoonish legs. This is a good first step, I think, to getting back on track.
Next Steps: doing things on a weekly (or daily, but I don't want to take on more than I can handle while I'm still finding my feet again) basis, and continuing the now laughably extended 30 Days blog posts.
These periods of disconnect are surprisingly common among those of a Pagan persuasion, so much so that a term has been coined: Fallow Times. On some level just knowing that I'm not alone in going through this helps the climb out of the hole become a little easier.
This was a time of letting the stagnant, devouring pattern of everyday life just sap my interest in things. I know it wasn't a complete disconnect from the gods because I kept getting little nudges in really indirect ways, even as I was wailing and gnashing teeth about not getting any responses to the rote prayers and halfhearted offerings. I heard about mindfulness meditation for the first time ever, and got interested to the point of buying a really nice book that I'm not finished with yet, and it reminded me of the joyful way I used to look at the world.
Everywhere I went on the internet I seemed to keep running into articles and quotes about self-care and personal sovereignty, and how these things are often just at odds with the western ideal of productivity. This type of productivity eats up my energy and good feelings like nothing else. :c
I also haven't been cooking much, lately, and the things I have been making are not inventive, engaging things but basic quick things. One of the funny things about being unemployed was that (thankfully) I had enough resources to cook, and I really deeply enjoyed doing that, as a way of managing my environment and taking care of myself and those around me. It was a job, and I enjoyed it. But now that I'm employed cooking has become just another damn thing I have to do if I want to eat, and I'm already tired from standing on my feet all day or evening. It does not contribute to fun and engaging cookery. I think what I'm going to have to do is just plan my weeks out more thoroughly, and save big cooking projects for my days off. That's what it's going to have to be.
As for crafts stuff: I've had lingering, horrible guilt over the fact that the ram I was knitting for LG's shrine still did not have horns, and that's definitely contributed to a slowing-down of knitting fun. Well. That and the fact that we've had INSANE DEADLY HEAT for like three weeks running now and I haven't really wanted to touch yarn and have anything big and wooly on my lap. (Oddly enough I HAVE gotten the spinning bug during this time, but that involves less actual smothering contact with heat-trapping fiber)
Well that silliness STOPPED TONIGHT. News flash everyone: Reese the Ram has horns, dammit. And they look super cute as he is sitting on my nightstand, all big fat sheep belly and tiny cartoonish legs. This is a good first step, I think, to getting back on track.
Next Steps: doing things on a weekly (or daily, but I don't want to take on more than I can handle while I'm still finding my feet again) basis, and continuing the now laughably extended 30 Days blog posts.
Wednesday, April 25, 2012
Seasoning!
This post is going to be a hodgepodge of thoughts, much like the fermentation one. Hopefully once I get past the 30 Days posts the blog will tend to lean in more this direction. The 30 Days posts, by the way, are obviously taking more than 30 days but I have a lot of thoughts swirling about the Gender post and I've written it like three times and haven't felt fully satisfied with it so it'll be a while. Don't worry. It'll get done.
Anyway, the topic of this one is Seasoning! But not really like..about spices. Although if you want my opinion on spices my answer is this: CUMIN. Maybe turmeric.
The seasoning I'm discussing here is about process, about shaping something and the way something becomes itself, or, more itself than it was before in its raw state. (okay yes a lot of crossover with the fermentation post)
I've been drawn to things lately that require seasoning: I find it soothing and empowering, using and re-using and repeating these steps to enhance my connection to an object and make it come alive for me and work to its full potential. And this happens in my spiritual work and the kitchen. I'm starting to think that there's really no difference between those two realms.
Let's talk about Cast Iron Skillets. Because they are simply fantastic. I tend to need to boost the iron in my diet, and cooking with cast iron helps accomplish that. The thing with cast iron of course is that it needs seasoning. If you get one new from the store, it will have a rougher surface, more graphite than black, and THINGS WILL STICK TO IT AND YOU WILL CRY. Unless you season it. The process is basically this: Clean it out with soap and water, dry it thoroughly, don't let it air dry because that way lies rust. Then, IMPORTANT: Slather that thing in fat. If you're of the vegan persuasion use a vegetable oil, but be sure to use one with a high smoke point because you don't want it turning rancid and leaching all sorts of horror out into your food. In my kitchen worklife, I like to use bacon grease. Or if I have extra around from pie adventures, homemade lard.
And then you bake your skillet (or dutch oven, or griddle, or what have you) in the oven, at a low-ish temperature, for a long time. And turn it over, and rub it down with a towel, and make sure that the fat is soaking into its pores. Cast iron has pores. and you want to basically cook that lubrication into the pores, and keep cooking with it and taking it to the cookware spa, basically, until you develop a smooth as glass shiny black surface that no egg will stick to. It's hands-on, sort of intimate caring work that by its very nature fosters a sense of connection and familiarity with a kitchen tool. When I season cast iron, I am helping to bring it to life.
It did not occur to me until recently that there was anything I'd call magical involved in this process, but it snuck up on me and caught me unawares. During my ongoing study of hoodoo I realized that the basic repetitive care annointing process I'd been using on my skillets is essentially the same steps one would take to make a mojo hand, or various other types of conjure working. These things need to be "fed," to use the terminology, which emphasizes that what is being made is a living spirit, and it needs to be sustained through continued care on the part of the practitioner.
I gave my number 3 skillet a name without even really thinking about it. I call it Baby Skillet and I'm very protective of it, which, okay, looks a little deranged to an outside perspective, but Baby Skillet and I have an excellent working partnership and my breakfasts would not be the same without it. By that extension, I would not be the same without it.
More recently, in my tea-appreciation journey, I've purchased one of those Really Excellent Ancient Chinese Secret Totally Superior Yixing Clay teapots you may have heard touted at Teavana. I'm not going to get into my problems with Teavana here, but yixing (or zisha) clay has some really nice properties that make for really, really, amazing tea preparation, depending on the type of tea. Not so much green tea, since the pots tend to hold heat too well and turn it bitter. But oolong? puerh? spot on. And it did not come as a surprise to me at this point that my new teapot needs to be seasoned, though repeated brewings and washings and care. Already by the third brewing, the teapot has lost almost all of its "I've been in a box" smell, and the tea that comes out of it is starting to taste better.
Of course this is going to be a long process, and the teapot (I'm thinking I'll call it Marceline? since it's sucking up color?) is still very much in the absorption process so the tea does not quite have the nice thick mouthfeel that it would if I brewed it in a nonporous container like a gaiwan. But I'm okay with that, really, because I know that if I keep working with the teapot and invest time in a long-term relationship with it, this will be more rewarding for me in the long run.
Anyway, the topic of this one is Seasoning! But not really like..about spices. Although if you want my opinion on spices my answer is this: CUMIN. Maybe turmeric.
The seasoning I'm discussing here is about process, about shaping something and the way something becomes itself, or, more itself than it was before in its raw state. (okay yes a lot of crossover with the fermentation post)
I've been drawn to things lately that require seasoning: I find it soothing and empowering, using and re-using and repeating these steps to enhance my connection to an object and make it come alive for me and work to its full potential. And this happens in my spiritual work and the kitchen. I'm starting to think that there's really no difference between those two realms.
Let's talk about Cast Iron Skillets. Because they are simply fantastic. I tend to need to boost the iron in my diet, and cooking with cast iron helps accomplish that. The thing with cast iron of course is that it needs seasoning. If you get one new from the store, it will have a rougher surface, more graphite than black, and THINGS WILL STICK TO IT AND YOU WILL CRY. Unless you season it. The process is basically this: Clean it out with soap and water, dry it thoroughly, don't let it air dry because that way lies rust. Then, IMPORTANT: Slather that thing in fat. If you're of the vegan persuasion use a vegetable oil, but be sure to use one with a high smoke point because you don't want it turning rancid and leaching all sorts of horror out into your food. In my kitchen worklife, I like to use bacon grease. Or if I have extra around from pie adventures, homemade lard.
And then you bake your skillet (or dutch oven, or griddle, or what have you) in the oven, at a low-ish temperature, for a long time. And turn it over, and rub it down with a towel, and make sure that the fat is soaking into its pores. Cast iron has pores. and you want to basically cook that lubrication into the pores, and keep cooking with it and taking it to the cookware spa, basically, until you develop a smooth as glass shiny black surface that no egg will stick to. It's hands-on, sort of intimate caring work that by its very nature fosters a sense of connection and familiarity with a kitchen tool. When I season cast iron, I am helping to bring it to life.
It did not occur to me until recently that there was anything I'd call magical involved in this process, but it snuck up on me and caught me unawares. During my ongoing study of hoodoo I realized that the basic repetitive care annointing process I'd been using on my skillets is essentially the same steps one would take to make a mojo hand, or various other types of conjure working. These things need to be "fed," to use the terminology, which emphasizes that what is being made is a living spirit, and it needs to be sustained through continued care on the part of the practitioner.
I gave my number 3 skillet a name without even really thinking about it. I call it Baby Skillet and I'm very protective of it, which, okay, looks a little deranged to an outside perspective, but Baby Skillet and I have an excellent working partnership and my breakfasts would not be the same without it. By that extension, I would not be the same without it.
More recently, in my tea-appreciation journey, I've purchased one of those Really Excellent Ancient Chinese Secret Totally Superior Yixing Clay teapots you may have heard touted at Teavana. I'm not going to get into my problems with Teavana here, but yixing (or zisha) clay has some really nice properties that make for really, really, amazing tea preparation, depending on the type of tea. Not so much green tea, since the pots tend to hold heat too well and turn it bitter. But oolong? puerh? spot on. And it did not come as a surprise to me at this point that my new teapot needs to be seasoned, though repeated brewings and washings and care. Already by the third brewing, the teapot has lost almost all of its "I've been in a box" smell, and the tea that comes out of it is starting to taste better.
Of course this is going to be a long process, and the teapot (I'm thinking I'll call it Marceline? since it's sucking up color?) is still very much in the absorption process so the tea does not quite have the nice thick mouthfeel that it would if I brewed it in a nonporous container like a gaiwan. But I'm okay with that, really, because I know that if I keep working with the teapot and invest time in a long-term relationship with it, this will be more rewarding for me in the long run.
Sunday, January 22, 2012
Day Eight: Holidays
Yes, yes, I'm way late with this, but life is busy and leaves me not a lot of time to devote to thoughtful spiritual writing, so I've resigned myself to the fact that this is going to take more than a month. In any case, here's the next entry:
8.
Beliefs – Holidays
Holidays
are weird for me, for a few reasons.
The
first reason is that man it is hard to remember when they happen.
It’s an unfortunate side effect of living in a country where the
state holidays tend to intermingle with the Christian ones, but I was
never, in my Wiccish days, able to remember when Imbolc was, or what
the hell it was celebrating, anyway.
Generic
Wicca-flavored paganism tends to use the Wheel of the Year, a cycle
of 8 holidays divided into the major sabbats (which Gardner, founder
of Wicca, ripped off from Celtic traditions) and the minor sabbats
(which are the solstices and equinoxes). One of the Major sabbats is
Samhain and god help me but I can’t pronounce it like it’s
supposed to be pronounced--fuck it it’s Halloween anyway.
(you
see how lazy I am?)
(seriously
though if someone could actually tell me how that damn word is
pronounced I would be in debt to you, because I’ve heard about a
billion versions and they all sound equally difficult/ridiculous. I
know it’s supposed to be like “sa-wen” but I have so much
cognitive dissonance with how the word looks as opposed to this
pronunciation that the word just makes me frustrated and angry. Also
as a misanthropic solitary pagan I have never actually heard a live
human being say “sa-wen” so I’m just going on internet research
basically. I’M DUBIOUS.)
Regardless!
Where I’m at now in my religious practices, I observe the solar
holidays on the solstices and equinoxes. It’s easy to remember,
found on every calendar, and I can physically observe the changes in
daylight throughout the seasons and these holidays keep me mindful of
how much life on earth is dependent on the Sun. A nice bonus to using
this simple system is that season affective disorder is a bit more
manageable when I can observe and take specific days to reflect on
the Sun’s importance to me and to the earth. Granted it’s still
winter and I’m still depressed and miserable on all these overcast
freezing awful gray days, but I can see the sun moving higher in the
sky, and it gives me faith that like most things, my melancholy will
pass.
I’ve
already mentioned my visits to Cahokia, which are more about
observation than celebration, obviously. I like to be able to hold a
candlelight vigil on the winter solstice, or at least stay up as late
as I can if the solstice is on a work night. I also like to reserve
that night for knitting! The summer solstice on the other hand I
prefer to spend outside (within reason, because as much as I love the
sun I hate skin cancer with a passion) making offerings or just being
out and active and enjoying nature.
One
very nice spring equinox I made ghee out of some local organic
butter, and it was a very rewarding experience, to make it with that
kind of mindfulness on that day and then use it, like a little bit of
sunlight, throughout the rest of the year. The Autumn equinox is such
a harvesty-type day, I use it, generally, to take stock of things,
organize yarn, bake bread, and sort of store up projects for the
winter to keep myself sane.
Now,
that’s been my holiday structure for a few years now, nothing big
or flashy, just a few little activities to celebrate the turning of
the seasons. And then I went and brought deities into it. And of
course research indicates that they were historically worshipped on
specific holidays: Shining God-who-is-probably-Belenos is associated
with May 1, designated on the Celtic and Wiccish calendars as
Beltain(e). So I’m in rather a pickle, since my questings have
started to take a Celtic turn, wondering if I should try to go back
to the full eight holidays or is that just too much for my poor
little brain to remember? Or maybe I should add that one in and have
five? And I always liked Halloween even though I don’t care a whit
about the whole Horned God death and rebirth myth cycle that’s
associated with Samhain, do I do something celebratory on October
31st? Often I’ll have a vigil on the Day of the Dead
despite no Mexican ancestry that I know of, but a lot of my ancestors
on my dad’s side were REALLY Catholic so that’s as good a day as
any to give them food and such.
Meanwhile,
Liminal God is pretty difficult to pin down, I’m tentatively
identifying him as Gaulish Mercury (there at least hasn’t been any
strong negative feeling towards that identification, but that’s not
necessarily a positive) and there’s like...no real evidence for any
specific holiday other than the Mercuralia celebrated on May 15 by
Roman merchants to ensure good business throughout the year. Not sure
about that, as I am not a businessperson.
Then
again, that is for springtime, and I have a good while before I have
to make any decisions about celebrating.
Is
everyone bored of my ramblings yet? Here have a tentative calendar
for this year:
Mar
20: Spring Equinox
April
20: My freaking birthday and if I hear any 4-20 jokes I will hit you.
May
1: Beltaine, MAYBE
May
15: Mercuralia?
June
20: Summer Solstice
Sept
22: Autumn Equinox
October
31-Nov 2: candy and also food for dead people.
Dec
21: Winter Solstice
That
is really spring-heavy! Gosh! We’ll see. We shall SEE.
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
Day Seven: Divination
7.
Beliefs – Divination
Coming
back from a little bit of a break (hey, I had company and wasn’t
motivated) to talk about divination. I read Tarot, which is a lot
less...mysterious and spooky than it sounds. I’m pretty shit at
reading for other people, it should be known, and I basically just
use the cards as a tool for self-reflection and guidance on how to
sort out the tangled jumble of stuff that is my brain.
The
important question, I guess, is how do I think this stuff works,
anyway? First it should be known that I hold no illusions about some
arcane ancient egyptian/atlantean store of knowledge coded in the
symbols on tarot cards. I’m more of an intuitive reader than
a...whatever the other kind is. All the Golden Dawn/OTO/BOTA Thothy
stuff doesn’t grab me as much as being able to look at an image on
a card and feeling drawn into it, taking on the role of the figures
and discovering how that relates to my daily life. But how that
connection is formed? I have no idea.
It
could be the Jungian notion of archetypes and the collective
unconscious as we just understand certain images because the human
mind has a mental...culture and language, as it were, that can be
understood intuitively.
OR,
from an animist point of view, my spirit is coming into contact with
the spirit inherent in the deck of cards (because everything has
spirit in animist thought, remember) and communicating on an
unconscious level and gaining insight from that.
Aesthetic ramblings and some pictures under the cut!
Sunday, January 8, 2012
Day Six: Place
- Beliefs – Place
Continuing
from some of the threads I left hanging in that last post, I’m
going to talk about the importance of Place to me. I’ve already
mentioned how some of my most memorable spiritual experiences have
been the result of encounters with different place-spirits. Now I
want to give some thoughts to the place I call Home.
Last
year I left the state where I’ve lived my whole life to move to
upstate New York and live with my long-distance girlfriend. It was a
very important experience for me, not just for my relationship (which
is awesome), but also for getting a much-needed perspective on how I
view the world, and Place.
New
York is a whole different country. I was living in the Finger Lakes,
ice age relics carved out of the earth by glaciers. I made an
offering at a gorge in Ithaca, surrounded by shale, not the clay and
limestone that characterizes the earth back home. The winter was
cold, unforgiving, and steady. It was hard (and amazing) to see how
severely the angle of the sun changes with the seasons at this higher
latitude. I did not feel entirely at home. I didn’t really feel
welcome there. Not by the people I was staying with, who are
wonderful people, all of them, but by the land itself. I was in
attitude and composition a foreigner, and though I enjoyed my travels
and definitely made some great strides in my spiritual journey, those
strides were made because I was feeling out of place and needed
someone to turn to.
I
first encountered Liminal God in New York, perhaps because I was a
stranger in a strange land. My new awareness of the Sun in the north
gave me a deeper understanding of the solar deity I seek to honor
with my life and my work.
Now
I have returned back home, to live and to work and to make money (you
know what sucks, being employed in a place you can’t call home) and
to figure out where my journey goes next.
I
want to tell a story about a tree.
When
I was a toddler, I remember being outside with my mom and dad one
spring or summer day while they were cleaning and weeding in the
front yard. Peeking up through the ivy was a little baby plant. It
was a tree, and maybe I was being a soft-hearted child but I didn’t
want them to just uproot the baby tree and let it die. Or maybe my
mom and dad thought it would look nice along the fence, helping to
block the view from our annoying neighbor who likes working on his
antique junk cars at all hours of the day. In any case, the tree was
taken out of the ivy and re-planted in the backyard, and it grew up
along with me. I’ve always thought of it as my tree, my little
juniper that’s now taller than me and wild and uncontrollable and
often covered in vines. When I was exploring neo-Wicca I took a small
branch from an autumn pruning and made a wand out of it. I didn’t
want the traditional athame (black-handled knife) for spellwork, it
felt too violent and cold and dangerous. I wanted a wand, something
with life in it that I had a connection to. It still sits in a drawer
of pagan sundries, even though I don’t use it anymore. I never knew
what kind of a tree it was, only that my dad said it was a juniper
and we left it at that.
I
now know that the tree I grew up with is, specifically, an Eastern
Red Cedar, which is the same species used by the Mississippian
culture across the river at Cahokia to build the Woodhenge there.
It’s not a true cedar, but a juniper, and the red color of the
heartwood is reminiscent of blood and therefore gives it enhanced
religious significance. It’s one of the only conifers native to
the region. The Eastern Red Cedar is the sacred tree of the
Southeastern Ceremonial Complex: it is their axis mundi, or World
Tree, the thing that is the center of the worlds and a place of power
for spiritual journeys.
All
these years I’ve been interested in liminality and journeying and
spirits and how the concept of the axis mundi exists across a LOT of
unrelated religions and I have the World Tree for this place growing
in my backyard, quietly carrying on since I was a baby. I cannot help
but find that meaningful.
The
archaeologists at Cahokia rebuilt Woodhenge the year I was born,
placing red cedar posts to mark the sunrise throughout the year,
showing how the Mississippians laid out their ceremonial grounds. My
best friend and I try to go to Cahokia on the solstices and equinoxes
to see the sunrise (all attempts so far have been on overcast days),
and listen to a talk by one of the docents about the history of the
place and the mounds and th people who lived there. Pagan-type
celebrations are not allowed at Woodhenge, both for concerns about
the integrity of the archeological site and, I assume, cultural
appropriation, but when I visit the place or hike up Monk’s Mound,
I feel at home in the landscape, and in my own private way I
recognize this Place, this environment as one of the factors that has
shaped the person I am today, and for that I’m grateful.
I
cannot live entirely in the past, though. There are other
environmental factors that shape me. The Mississippi River is a huge
presence. I remember 1993, the year of the great flood, and being
worried about our house, and making sandbags with my girl scout
troop, and feeling awed at the smallness and powerlessness of people
in the face of this angry brown god. I owe it respect. It gives me
the water I drink (no other water tastes right) and the soil I stand
on. Also, the presence of the river is essential to the development
of my city, the way it was founded and grew and then eventually
declined (gosh THANKS railroads and planes) and now we’re at a
different Place, with a different feeling, surely, than the
commerical hub it once was. It feels like the city is asleep, in a
way, stretching out west as people move away.
That
came out sounding a little sad. Wow. In any case, this is the place
in which I grew up and it’s had a powerful effect on me. I don’t
think I could live in a place without a body of water nearby. It just
makes things seem...more connected, in a way, to the earth, and it
keeps me aware of my place in the world.
Saturday, January 7, 2012
Day Five: Dance Magic Dance
- Beliefs – Magic: In which I rant about my past and talk about word spelling and genealogy and hoodoo
The
time has come, friends. I’m going to talk about MAGIC. Brace
yourselves.
When
I originally stumbled into the world of modern paganism, I was a
little bewildered by all the magic. It’s not that I outright
thought magic wasn’t real, per se, but I was, shall we say,
dubious. Imagine that in a Tim Gunn voice. All the emphasis on magic,
or “magick” as the sources I was reading spelled it, seemed,
well, a little hokey. And big disclaimer here, I was reading some
really
bad books.
I was reading Silver Ravenwolf, for goodness’ sake. It was
ridiculous. Just recently while Girlfriend was helping me clean my
room out of all my old useless shit, I came across a copy of Teen
Witch
and I had to work really hard to convince her that it was much, much
better to recycle the book, or shred it or burn it, than donate it to
charity or the library. Because it’s just...harmful to a person’s
outlook on life and their religion. It just is. And I maintain that
if I want to burn a book I paid money for once upon a time and,
horror, read and enjoyed at the time, I can totally do that.
Girlfriend objected. Whatever it’s getting recycled so hopefully
people can make good books out of it. Or maybe it’s going to be
reincarnated into a James Patterson book. That would just be my luck.
Oh
my god can I write a blog entry without becoming a ridiculous
rambling crazy person, please. So Magic.
I
don’t spell magic with a ‘K’ because in the first place I grew
to think it was kind of stupid to spell it that way, and then when I
learned why the K was added in the first place, I realized I don’t
agree with/care about that system of thought. Aleister Crowley’s
application of Hebrew numerological significance to his ceremonial
magic does not hold any spiritual meaning for me. Now for Ceremonial
Magicians (CMs), I can see how that spelling would render the word
“magic” much more significant and powerful. This doesn’t
explain why every piece of Wicca 101 pulp has to use that spelling,
but whatever.
Magic
as I first learned about it seemed stilted, with all the incantations
and elements and casting of a circle to create sacred space and tools
required. My early attempts made me feel self-conscious and stupid.
My focus turned to my domestic environment, and the cleansing and
protection of it. I used a lot of salt. I was never one for big grand
spellwork, and the one time I attempted something really serious it
had serious and seriously unexpected results. There were
ramifications. It sparked a really strange short-lived relationship
between two people who were both young and confused and full of
emotions and, okay, there’s a little bit of regret there, but from
this experience I learned some important things. I don’t use magic
unless I think it will genuinely augment, NOT replace, physical
mundane efforts I make to fix problems and improve myself.
I
have also learned that I really don’t think witchcraft as a magical
system works for me. It’s very European in feel, to my mind.
Generic neopagan magic tends to rely a lot of new age ideas like the
powers of various crystals without really going into why
these things work. And, as earlier stated, ceremonial magic just does
not appeal to me at all.
There
is, however, a magical system I’m learning to use (sparingly, and
so far only directed at myself). One of the factors sparking my
spiritual renaissance (let’s call it a renaissance, I like that) is
the idea that my local environment should inform my practice. The
difficulties I encountered when learning about cultural
reconstructionism involved the fact that I can’t in good conscience
pick one culture or pantheon to honor. My ancestors came from all
over the place. I look in the mirror every day and see a mix of
features that I enjoy, surely, but are also problematic in my
everyday interactions with people. (pro tip: If you see a person who
looks like they might be multiracial, it’s rude to blurt “what
are you?” Particularly if this is at someone’s place of business
and therefore undermining their ability to do their goddamn job.)
My
father’s family all identify as African-American, but (like many
African-Americans) they have a significant portion of European
ancestry. Specifically, there is a lot of French ancestry, as well as
a bit of Native American ancestry (also on my mom’s side as well,
though her family is chiefly British Isles-oriented). I feel like it
would be disingenuous of me to focus on a pantheon or a magical
system that is purely European in origin. At the same time, though, I
feel a bit nervous about investigating African traditional and
diasporic religions because it feels like cultural appropriation.
Also, there’s not one single African culture, and thanks to
slavery, it’s impossible for me to research exactly where in Africa
my father’s ancestors came from. Okay not without a really
expensive genome test, which I REALLY WANT SOMEDAY because I love
genealogy and the study of human origins but that’s another story
for another time.
Long
story short, I feel like if I’m going to continue to incorporate a
magical system into my life in some way, it needs to be one that
reflects the varied cultures that are part of my ancestry, and it
also needs to be thoroughly American. Because that’s what my
culture really is, let’s be honest. I am an American, and the city
and the state and the country in which I live colors my view of the
world, natural and political and spiritual.
Last
year, I learned about hoodoo. It is basically the jazz music of
magical systems. Derived from the African diaspora with influence
from Latin American, Native American, and various European cultures,
it is firmly associated with the Blues and the South and it has rules
and structures that make sense to me. There’s no “harm none”
advice in hoodoo, but more of a “be aware that if you do something
harmful to someone they have every right to retaliate so take some
precautions.” It is a magical system developed by and for
marginalized people, who do not get their needs met by hegemonic
societal structures.
Basically
this draws the biracial queer girl like hipsters to a sale at the
thrift store.
One
thing I really enjoy about hoodoo is that it’s not squeamish. It’s
all about bodies and the things they do and produce. It accepts death
as a part of life and a great importance is placed on bones, claws,
roots, the things left behind by plants and animals and people.
Another thing in its favor is that hoodoo or conjure workings have an
animist element to them. Making up a mojo hand essentially involves
creating a container for power through the addition of various items,
and giving life to that power and feeding it and maintaining it over
time. It is the direction of the spirit in things, and a reciprocal
honoring of those spirits that continues. There’s a relationship
involved, like responsible pet ownership. You have to take care of
it. Other systems of magic I’ve looked at seemed oriented towards
the raising and focusing of energy and then just sending it out into
the universe to do its work and...then sort of moving on. The
structure of hoodoo fits much more easily with both my ethics and my
daily life.
So
far I’m only operating on the fringes of this system. I like to
research things before I jump in and start going crazy with conjure.
There are some good sources available online, the first of which is
Lucky Mojo. There are also,
surprisingly, a lot of shops on etsy that make the materials
available, and (HUGE bonus points here) hoodoo supplies are a LOT
CHEAPER than other magical supplies. It has a lot in common with
green or kitchen witchcraft in that it’s a very do it yourself
system, but given my cultural identity and my location, hoodoo seems
to work much better for me.
Has
this blog entry been ridiculously long? Has it been too off-topic?
Was there more I could have said? Please do let me know. Blogging
your innermost thoughts is hard, man.
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